07/02/2008
Spanking vs CP ?
From reading all of this material, the would-be HOH will start to understand that there is rather more to this lifestyle than spanking. Indeed, it is our own experience that since we started DD, our bouts of erotic F/M spanking have all but vanished, as we believe that reserving CP purely for our discipline sessions is absolutely appropriate. Does this work for any of you?
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Bit confused here...did you (or do you) spank him, as well?
No I did/do not and could never spank him, it wasvaleays him spanking me initially for erotic purposes (although this was actually only rather rarely) but now for DD. Since then spanking is only reserved for DD. Although I know there are many men who are spanked by their wives this could not work for me as DD is in some ways about recapturing my more feminine side, this would be at odds with me spanking Andrew.
Hil
Ok, that's how things work for us as well. I was confused by your use of the term "F/M spanking" which would seem to suggest it was the "F" spanking the "M"!
My HoH does sometimes spank me during sex, but there is a BIG difference between those swats and what I receive for discipline. "Real" spanking is reserved exclusively for the discipline aspect of our relationship, and it's only him spanking me.
Like you, DD brings out my femininity and his dominant masculinity. Early on when I gamely suggested that if he wanted, I could spank him too, he said simply "That wouldn't be possible."
Now that I know him better, I realise that truer words have never been spoken!
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